The expression is found in British collections of proverbs from the 16th century.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush
The United Kingdom.
A fool and his money are soon parted
The United Kingdom - 16th century.
A golden key can open any door
The United Kingdom.
A house divided against itself cannot stand
Biblical.
A leopard can’t change his spots
Biblical.
A miss is as good as a mile
USA.
Children should be seen and not heard
Britain.
Curiosity killed the cat
USA, late 19th century. Probably deriving from a much older British phrase - ‘care killed the cat’.
Don’t bite the hand that feeds you
Don’t count your chickens before they hatch
Britain, 16th century proverb.
Don’t cry over spilt milk
Britain, 17th century proverb.
Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth
Britain, 16th century proverb.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket
Britain, 16th century proverb, from an Italian original.
Give him an inch and hell take a mile
USA, 19th century. First seen in the journals of Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Keep your chin up
USA, late 19th century.
Let bygones be bygones
Britain, 16th century proverb
Let sleeping dogs lie
Britain. 19th century but much earlier as a similarly-worded proverb.
You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink
Britain, 12th century. One of the oldest proverbs in the English language
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks
Britain, 16th century proverb. One of the oldest proverbs in English.
Entry 1
A bad workman always blames his tools
Meaning A proverb that suggests a poor workman tends to look for an excuse for his poor work.
Usage Worldwide, but less commonly than 50 years ago.
Example
- It was really Andy’s fault that the wall he built fell down but he tried to claim that the cement mixer was faulty.
Entry 2
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush
Meaning It’s better to have a lesser but certain advantage than the possibility of a greater one that may come to nothing.
Usage One of the most widely used proverbs throughout the English-speaking world.
Example
- The questions in the final round looked hard so we opted out of the big prize and took the smaller $2,000 second prize. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush you know.
Entry 3
A fool and his money are soon parted
Meaning A foolish person is very likely to lose his money.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- He’s off to the casino again - ’a fool and his money...’ I say.
Entry 4
A golden key can open any door
Meaning Money always has a telling influence.
Usage Worldwide, but somewhat uncommon.
Example
- He’s not really good enough to be an F1 driver but he got in the team because he brought a major sponsorship deal with him. As they say, a golden key can open any door.
Entry 5
A house divided against itself cannot stand
Meaning Failure is certain if those on the same side argue amongst themselves.
Usage Widespread but uncommon. Rather formal for everyday speech.
Example
- The Tory party can’t stop arguing over Europe. Don’t they know that a house divided cannot stand.
Entry 6
A leopard can’t change his spots
Meaning You cannot change your innate self.
Usage Widespread but rather formal form of expression. Not widely used by the young.
Example
- He was a bully at school and he’s a bully now - a leopard can’t change its spots.
Entry 7
A miss is as good as a mile
Meaning Some endeavours either succeed or they don’t - to miss narrowly is still failure.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- He came within a millimetre of breaking the high jump records. Sadly, a miss is as good as a mile.
Entry 8
Children should be seen and not heard
Meaning Old proverb suggesting that children should not impinge on the adult world.
Usage Rarely used seriously any longer. Now more likely be heard in black and white movies than in real life.
Example
- Grandma is a bit strict. We shouldn't judge her though - things were tougher in her childhood. She was expected to be seen and not heard.
Entry 9
Curiosity killed the cat
Meaning Being inquisitive can lead you into a dangerous situation.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I heard a noise outside and went to have a look. It turns out I should have ignored it, it was a bear. Curiosity killed the cat they say.
Entry 10
Don't bite the hand that feeds you
Meaning Don't hurt someone that helps you.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Shouting at the people who are offering you somewhere to stay isn't a good plan. Have you never heard of the proverb Don't bite the hand that feeds you?
Entry 11
Don't count your chickens before they hatch
Meaning Don't count on receiving some benefit until you actually have it.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I know you felt good about that exam, but you haven't passed until you get the result - don't count your chickens.
Entry 12
Don't cry over spilt milk
Meaning Don't fret pointlessly about some mistake or loss when it can't be remedied.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Well, the vase is smashed. There's no point crying over spilt milk.
Entry 13
Don't look a gift horse in the mouth
Meaning When you receive a gift accept it with good grace and don't find fault with it.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I gave her a $700 phone and she said it wasn't the right colour. Talk about looking a gift horse in the mouth!
Entry 14
Don't put all your eggs in one basket
Meaning Don't risk all your property on a single venture.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Well, that horse is a good runner but I wouldn't bet all your money on it to win. That would be putting all your eggs into one basket.
Entry 15
Give him an inch and hell take a mile
Meaning allow someone a small concession and they will take advantage and try to take more.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Give Janice and inch and shell take a mile. We said she could stay in the spare room for a couple of nights but she's been here a month already.
Entry 16
Keep your chin up
Meaning Remain positive in a tough situation.
Usage Although derived in the USA this idiom is more commonly heard now in Britain.
Example
- Sorry to hear that you were made redundant on the day your buried your mother. Keep your chin up mate.
Entry 17
Let bygones be bygones
Meaning Allow a disagreement or argument to be put in the past.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I never thought I'd be saying this after you slept with my wife, but that was thirty years ago, let's let bygones be bygones.
Entry 18
Let sleeping dogs lie
Meaning Avoid restarting a conflict.
Usage Worldwide, but like many proverbs, now considered rather old-fashioned.
Example
- I knew he was stealing from me but, he is proud and he really needs the money. I preferred to let sleeping dogs lie and to say nothing.
Entry 19
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink
Meaning You can encourage someone to to do something but, in the end, what they do is their own choice.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I bought her a car; I even paid for the driving lessons, but she still travels everywhere by bus.
Entry 20
You can't teach an old dog new tricks
Meaning Once animals (and people) are set in their ways they struggle to assimilate new ideas.
Usage Worldwide, but like many proverbs, now mostly used by the older generation.
Example
- I tried to learn Mandarin after I retired but I got nowhere with it. I guess you can't teach an old dog new tricks.