A house divided against itself cannot stand
Biblical.
Alpha Mom
USA. A late 20th century adaptation of ‘alpha male’, which emerged in the 1930s.
Baby brain
USA, 20th century.
Baby bump
Britain, 1980s
Blood blister
Britain.
Blood is thicker than water
Britain. Probably coined by Sir Walter Scott, 1815.
Breast is best
Bricks and mortar
Britain.
Evil twin
USA, 2004.
Flesh and blood
Britain, 10th century, from a biblical source.
Mums the word
Britain, 18th century.
My old Dutch
Britain.
New arrival
Britain, 19th century.
Quality time
USA, 20th century.
Son of a gun
Coined in the 1800s, in either the USA or Britain - no one is sure about the origin.
Spitting image
Britain - date uncertain.
Tie the knot
Britain, 18th century, alluding to a marriage custom that goes back to at least the 13th century.
Trouble and strife
Britain.
Uncle Dick
Britain.
Uncle Tom
USA, 1920s. Derived from the name of the hero in the novel Uncle Tom’s Cabin.
Unlucky in love
Entry 1
A house divided against itself cannot stand
Meaning Failure is certain if those on the same side argue amongst themselves.
Usage Widespread but uncommon. Rather formal for everyday speech.
Example
- The Tory party can’t stop arguing over Europe. Don’t they know that a house divided cannot stand.
Entry 2
Alpha Mom
Meaning An ambitious mother who aims to excel at work while raising children.
Usage Worldwide, but more in the USA than elsewhere.
Example
- She has two kids and is desperate to get the top job to save to get them into private school - a real alpha mom.
Entry 3
Baby brain
Meaning Confusion or forgetfulness caused by lack of sleep when caring for a new-born.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I put baby Julie's bottle of milk away in the oven today - must be baby brain.
Entry 4
Baby bump
Meaning The protruding belly of a pregnant woman. Also used to describe the unborn child itself.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Joan doesn't really want to make it public that she was pregnant but pretty soon her baby bump is going to make it obvious.
Entry 5
Blood blister
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for sister.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- There were five of us at home - three brothers and two blood blisters.
Entry 6
Blood is thicker than water
Meaning Family loyalties are stronger than those to other people.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- It was just me and his son in the job interview. I had no chance, blood is thicker than water you know.
Entry 7
Breast is best
Meaning Slogan of breastfeeding campaign.
Example
- I bottle-fed all my kids. I know they say breast is best but they all lived to tell the tale.
Entry 8
Bricks and mortar
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for daughter.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- The girls got into trouble but her mother and I still love them - they are our bricks and mortars after all.
Entry 9
Evil twin
Meaning An imaginary double, humorously referred to in order to explain the uncharacteristic bad behaviour of a normally moral person. Usually used light-heartedly. The expression formed as an allusion to plots in films involving actual evil twins.
Usage Worldwide, but mostly amongst the young and hip.
Example
- Jane's such a good girl and I took it as read that she would come to the wedding dressed appropriately, but she's turned up in full goth makeup. At first I thought it must have been her evil twin.
Entry 10
Flesh and blood
Meaning 1 - One's family. 2 - the bodily stuff we are made of.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- 1 - We aren't putting Dad into a home. He is our flesh and blood after all. 2 - It's so hot in here - almost more than flesh and blood can stand.
Entry 11
Mums the word
Meaning Keep quiet. Say nothing.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- I'm telling you this in confidence - remember, mums the word.
Entry 12
My old Dutch
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for duchess.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- This year will be our silver wedding, the old dutch and me.
Entry 13
New arrival
Meaning Colloquial term for a new-born baby.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Jill's gone into labour. When it comes the new arrival will be her third child.
Entry 14
Quality time
Meaning Time spent with a child, spouse or friend in an uninterrupted and attentive way.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I've been working 12 hours a day this week and haven't been home once for the toddler's bedtime. This weekend I'm going to give them some quality time and take them to the zoo
Entry 15
Son of a gun
Meaning A rogue.
Usage Worldwide, but rather old-fashioned.
Example
- He was always up to mischief at school - the real class son of a gun.
Entry 16
Spitting image
Meaning The exact likeness.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I could have picked them out as father and son in a football crowd. They were the spitting image of each other.
Entry 17
Tie the knot
Meaning Get married.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Jane's been pressing Jim to get married for years. They're finally tying the knot this weekend.
Entry 18
Trouble and strife
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for wife.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- Twenty years we've been married now, the trouble and strife and myself.
Entry 19
Uncle Dick
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for sick.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- Sorry, I won't be into work today. I'll feeling Uncle Dick.
Entry 20
Uncle Tom
Meaning A derogatory term for a black man who is servile towards white men.
Usage Worldwide, but most common in the USA.
Example
- Randy never stands up for us blacks. In the old days we'd have called him an Uncle Tom - these days people call him a coconut (that is, brown on the outside but white on the inside).
Entry 21
Unlucky in love
Meaning Having been unable to find a long-term romantic partner.
Example
- Jane's so unlucky in love. That's the third time she's been engaged only to have it broken off.