Idioms · 21 entries

Family

What does "Family" mean?

Failure is certain if those on the same side argue amongst themselves.

A house divided against itself cannot stand

Biblical.

Alpha Mom

USA. A late 20th century adaptation of ‘alpha male’, which emerged in the 1930s.

Baby brain

USA, 20th century.

Baby bump

Britain, 1980s

Blood blister

Britain.

Blood is thicker than water

Britain. Probably coined by Sir Walter Scott, 1815.

Breast is best

Bricks and mortar

Britain.

Evil twin

USA, 2004.

Flesh and blood

Britain, 10th century, from a biblical source.

Mums the word

Britain, 18th century.

My old Dutch

Britain.

New arrival

Britain, 19th century.

Quality time

USA, 20th century.

Son of a gun

Coined in the 1800s, in either the USA or Britain - no one is sure about the origin.

Spitting image

Britain - date uncertain.

Tie the knot

Britain, 18th century, alluding to a marriage custom that goes back to at least the 13th century.

Trouble and strife

Britain.

Uncle Dick

Britain.

Uncle Tom

USA, 1920s. Derived from the name of the hero in the novel Uncle Tom’s Cabin.

Unlucky in love

Entry 1

A house divided against itself cannot stand

Failure is certain if those on the same side argue amongst themselves.

Widespread but uncommon. Rather formal for everyday speech.

  • The Tory party can’t stop arguing over Europe. Don’t they know that a house divided cannot stand.

Entry 2

Alpha Mom

An ambitious mother who aims to excel at work while raising children.

Worldwide, but more in the USA than elsewhere.

  • She has two kids and is desperate to get the top job to save to get them into private school - a real alpha mom.

Entry 3

Baby brain

Confusion or forgetfulness caused by lack of sleep when caring for a new-born.

Worldwide.

  • I put baby Julie's bottle of milk away in the oven today - must be baby brain.

Entry 4

Baby bump

The protruding belly of a pregnant woman. Also used to describe the unborn child itself.

Worldwide.

  • Joan doesn't really want to make it public that she was pregnant but pretty soon her baby bump is going to make it obvious.

Entry 5

Blood blister

Cockney rhyming slang for sister.

Mostly Britain.

  • There were five of us at home - three brothers and two blood blisters.

Entry 6

Blood is thicker than water

Family loyalties are stronger than those to other people.

Worldwide.

  • It was just me and his son in the job interview. I had no chance, blood is thicker than water you know.

Entry 7

Breast is best

Slogan of breastfeeding campaign.

  • I bottle-fed all my kids. I know they say breast is best but they all lived to tell the tale.

Entry 8

Bricks and mortar

Cockney rhyming slang for daughter.

Mostly Britain.

  • The girls got into trouble but her mother and I still love them - they are our bricks and mortars after all.

Entry 9

Evil twin

An imaginary double, humorously referred to in order to explain the uncharacteristic bad behaviour of a normally moral person. Usually used light-heartedly. The expression formed as an allusion to plots in films involving actual evil twins.

Worldwide, but mostly amongst the young and hip.

  • Jane's such a good girl and I took it as read that she would come to the wedding dressed appropriately, but she's turned up in full goth makeup. At first I thought it must have been her evil twin.

Entry 10

Flesh and blood

1 - One's family. 2 - the bodily stuff we are made of.

Worldwide.

  • 1 - We aren't putting Dad into a home. He is our flesh and blood after all. 2 - It's so hot in here - almost more than flesh and blood can stand.

Entry 11

Mums the word

Keep quiet. Say nothing.

Mostly Britain.

  • I'm telling you this in confidence - remember, mums the word.

Entry 12

My old Dutch

Cockney rhyming slang for duchess.

Mostly Britain.

  • This year will be our silver wedding, the old dutch and me.

Entry 13

New arrival

Colloquial term for a new-born baby.

Worldwide.

  • Jill's gone into labour. When it comes the new arrival will be her third child.

Entry 14

Quality time

Time spent with a child, spouse or friend in an uninterrupted and attentive way.

Worldwide.

  • I've been working 12 hours a day this week and haven't been home once for the toddler's bedtime. This weekend I'm going to give them some quality time and take them to the zoo

Entry 15

Son of a gun

A rogue.

Worldwide, but rather old-fashioned.

  • He was always up to mischief at school - the real class son of a gun.

Entry 16

Spitting image

The exact likeness.

Worldwide.

  • I could have picked them out as father and son in a football crowd. They were the spitting image of each other.

Entry 17

Tie the knot

Get married.

Worldwide.

  • Jane's been pressing Jim to get married for years. They're finally tying the knot this weekend.

Entry 18

Trouble and strife

Cockney rhyming slang for wife.

Mostly Britain.

  • Twenty years we've been married now, the trouble and strife and myself.

Entry 19

Uncle Dick

Cockney rhyming slang for sick.

Mostly Britain.

  • Sorry, I won't be into work today. I'll feeling Uncle Dick.

Entry 20

Uncle Tom

A derogatory term for a black man who is servile towards white men.

Worldwide, but most common in the USA.

  • Randy never stands up for us blacks. In the old days we'd have called him an Uncle Tom - these days people call him a coconut (that is, brown on the outside but white on the inside).

Entry 21

Unlucky in love

Having been unable to find a long-term romantic partner.

  • Jane's so unlucky in love. That's the third time she's been engaged only to have it broken off.