Emotion


A day on which everything seems to go wrong.

I missed the bus and was late on the one day the boss was early and now I’ve laddered my tights! – talk about a bad hair day.

USA.

Predominantly in the USA but also more widely.


A sense of inferiority characterized by a quickness to take offence.

He’s the only cabinet minister that didn’t go to Eton and it’s given him a bit of a chip on his shoulder.

USA.

Worldwide.


Our feelings for people and things grows when we are apart from them.

I enjoyed visiting Italy but after a few weeks I couldn’t wait to get home to my wife. As they say – absense makes the heart grow fonder.

The United Kingdom – 19th century.

Still used, predominantly in the UK, mostly by the older generation.


To further a loss. To make a bad situation worse.

She jilted him at the altar, but to add insult to injury, she later married his brother.

The United Kingdom – 17th century.

Worldwide.


Excited and ready for action.

He’s been training for today all year. Now the big day has come and he’s amped up and ready to go.

USA, late 20th century. A reference to the amplification of acoustic instruments.

Worldwide, but more in the USA than elsewhere.


1. Adjust a device to reduce sound or temperature. 2. Reduce one’s emotional reaction to something.

1. It’s boiling in here. Just dial down the thermostat would you? 2. Okay, so your favourite didn’t win X-Factor. No need to bite the carpet – just dial it down a notch.

USA, late 20th century.

Worldwide.


A happy simplistic ending to a story similar to those found in fairy tales.

Disney stories are great for kids, but their fairytale endings don’t match real life for adults.

Britain, late 19th century. Used in a magazine article by Charles Dickens.

Worldwide.


Inspire with enthusiasm.

I didn’t agree with Billy Graham’s views but his fervent delivery really fired the imagination of those who did.


Move beyond something that is bothering you.

Okay she left him, but that was two years ago. He needs to get over it and move on.

Worldwide.


A personal intuition, based on feeling rather than fact.

Even before the trial, I always had a gut feeling that O J Simpson was a wrong un.

Worldwide.


A bittersweet feeling combining both happiness and sadness.

Dad won the Bafta for best actor but was too ill to collect it, so I’m happy sad about that.

Britain, 19th century.

Worldwide, but not commonly used.


Said of someone who the speaker has a deep dislike of.

Savile was a sexual predator for 50 years. Just seeing a picture of his stupid face now makes my skin crawl.

Britain, 15th century.

Worldwide.


Very excited, especially when in love.

She said yes! We are to be married and I’m head over heels.

Britain, 18th century.

Worldwide.


I am unwilling to tolerate it.

Next door are having another party and the noise is outrageous – I’m going round there to tell them I can’t be doing with it.

Britain.

Mostly Britain.


I’m overwhelmed and stressed and it is affecting my ability to think.

The kids’ party got a little out of hand and I had to go outside to get some work done. I couldn’t think straight with all that yelling and running around.

Britain.

Mostly Britain.


Remain positive in a tough situation.

Sorry to hear that you were made redundant on the day your buried your mother. Keep your chin up mate.

USA, late 19th century.

Although derived in the USA this idiom is more commonly heard now in Britain.


In a frenzied manner.

He was shouting and swearing because they had lost the contract – he was running around like a chicken with its head cut off.

USA, late 19th century.

Worldwide, but not particularly common.


Overcome by emotion and out of control.

When the traffic warden had his car towed, Jack lost his head and hit him.

Britain, late 18th century.

Worldwide.


No longer having to deal with something.

I know it’s your turn to organise the Christmas party but you’re off the hook, Judy volunteered to take over.

Britain, 19th century – in the writings of Anthony Trollope

Worldwide.


Anticipation of the weekend after a hard working week.

I’m ready for a few jars at the pub after work – I’ve got that friday feeling.

20th century origin, although the similar ‘Friday face’ is known in England since the 16th century.

Worldwide.


Having been unable to find a long-term romantic partner.

Jane’s so unlucky in love. That’s the third time she’s been engaged only to have it broken off.


A past experience that you prefer not to affect your current life.

Losing my wife and my job was difficult at the time but I’ve moved on. Its all water under the bridge now.

Worldwide.

Gary Martin is a writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.

Gary Martin

Writer and researcher on the origins of phrases and the creator of the Phrase Finder website. Over the past 26 years more than 700 million of his pages have been downloaded by readers. He is one of the most popular and trusted sources of information on phrases and idioms.