A fate worse than death
The United Kingdom.
Bite the dust
Britain, 18th century. Probably influenced by a biblical passage.
Bought the farm
USA, 20th century.
Brown bread
Britain.
Bucket list
USA, late 20th century - popularized by the title of the film The Bucket List (2007).
Dead ringer
American, late 19th century.
Dead white European male
Dropping like flies
USA, early 20th century.
Flog a dead horse
Britain, 17th century.
Kick the bucket
Britain - 18th century.
Kill two birds with one stone
Britain, 17th century. Found in the writings of Thomas Hobbes.
Lord Fred
Britain.
Over my dead body
Britain, circa 1800. From the writings of Samuel Taylor Coleridge.
Peg out
1. USA, mid 19th century. 2. Britain, mid 19th century.
The empty chair
Wouldn’t be caught dead
Britain, late 19th century.
You can’t take it with you
Britain, 1930s - deriving from several similar idioms dating from the early 19th century onward.
Your number is up
1. Britain, early 20th century. 2. Britain, early 19th century.
Entry 1
A fate worse than death
Meaning The reputed opinion of sexual intercourse by prim Victorian ladies.
Usage Worldwide, but now considered rather old-fashioned and used mainly by the older generation.
Example
- Lord Carruthers dragged me to his bedroom and left me in no doubt I was to suffer a fate worse than death.
Entry 2
Bite the dust
Meaning Die, especially in a violent or sudden way.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid bit the dust at the end of the movie.
Entry 3
Bought the farm
Meaning Died, especially in a violent way which may give rise to an insurance claim.
Usage USA.
Example
- Henry's parachute failed at 20,000 feet - he really bought the farm.
Entry 4
Brown bread
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for dead.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- That bird just landed on the live power cable. He's brown bread for sure.
Entry 5
Bucket list
Meaning A list of things you plan to do before you 'kick the bucket' (die). Often a list of fanciful ideas rather than of concrete plans.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- I've always wanted to go to Japan. I guess I'll add that to my bucket list.
Entry 6
Dead ringer
Meaning An exact duplicate.
Usage Most common in the USA, but used worldwide too.
Example
- I can't tell the twins apart. They're dead ringers of each other.
Entry 7
Dead white European male
Meaning Derogatory reference to someone who has an unjustified reputation.
Example
- John Ruskin is a hero to some people in the art world but I can't see him as anything other than a dead, white, European male.
Entry 8
Dropping like flies
Meaning Many people either falling ill or dying.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- In the Black Death in 1348 Londoners were dropping like flies.
Entry 9
Flog a dead horse
Meaning To attempt to make progress with something that has no future.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Reissuing Betamax tapes? You're flogging a dead horse there mate.
Entry 10
Kick the bucket
Meaning Die.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Grandad kicked the bucket last week. No real surprise - he was 96.
Entry 11
Kill two birds with one stone
Meaning Accomplish two things with a single action.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- When I chop the wood I get warm too. You could say I kill two birds with one stone.
Entry 12
Lord Fred
Meaning Cockney rhyming slang for bed.
Usage Mostly Britain.
Example
- The hamster escaped and the cat got it - it's Lord Fred for sure.
Entry 13
Over my dead body
Meaning Said when you absolutely refuse to allow something to happen.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- He bullied me at school and now you want to promote him. Over my dead body!
Entry 14
Peg out
Meaning 1. To die, especially to die of old age. 2. To complete a circuit of the board in the card game cribbage.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- 1. Gran had been bedridden for months and finally pegged out yesterday. 2. Just six more holes to go - if I get three nines I'll be able to peg out.
Entry 15
The empty chair
Meaning The perceived absense of someone who is recently deceased.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Some days I can forget about Jim's death for a while, then I see the empty chair and the grief comes back.
Entry 16
Wouldn't be caught dead
Meaning Referring to something you absolutely refuse to do.
Usage Worldwide but most common in Britain.
Example
- I'm a lifelong socialist. I wouldn't be caught dead working for a hedge fund.
Entry 17
You can't take it with you
Meaning Suggestion that you should spend money and live life now as it will be no use to you after you die.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- Grandma saved all her life but lived on a pittance. No one told her that you can't take it with you.
Entry 18
Your number is up
Meaning It is now your turn. For instance, if 1. You are about to die. or 2. You have won a lottery.
Usage Worldwide.
Example
- 1. When I heard the bombers screaming towards us I was sure my number was up. 2. Who has ticket number 374? Come on down and collect your prize - your number is up.