Rise above the fray
Origin of the phrase(s): Rise above the fray or above the fray.
Thank you.
This meaning of fray is "a usually disorderly or protracted fight, struggle, or dispute." (Merriam-Webster online) If one is above the fray, you are looking down on the struggles of others. The image that it calls to my mind is a king or general up on a mountaintop looking down at soldiers fighting.