" You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink "
You can encourage someone to to do something but, in the end, what they do is their own choice.
I bought her a car; I even paid for the driving lessons, but she still travels everywhere by bus.
Where did it originate?:
, 12th century. One of the oldest proverbs in the English language
Where is it used?:
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